Since it appears that there is pretty limited number of ir receivers the amulet remote actually works with, can you provide a list of at least a few of the ir receivers you've tested that work with this? I just want to be one and be done. It's frustrating to not have a major piece of functionality not work for a product based on lack of compatibility.
Unfortunately, when the Amulet was originally designed, THE standard IR receiver was Microsoft's own receiver which they bundled with their remote. At that time, most of our intended sales were to people replacing their existing remote with an Amulet, so Amulet was designed to use the same codes as the Microsoft unit. (Amulet also works fine to control the X-Box 360 via remote, by the way, since the same codes are used there).
We did second-source an IR receiver from SMK which is compatible, and were supplying those for a while to customers who had no IR receiver of their own; unfortunately, we are no longer able to obtain these.
We do hope to find another supplier since these are becoming increasingly difficult to track down. eHome was Microsoft's term for their living room infrastructure, rather than a specific product name; it's also the name that appears in Device Manager for USB IR receivers compatible with Microsoft's RC6 protocol, as used by Amulet.
I'm sending you a separate mail with some thoughts that might help you get up and running quickly. In the meantime, I'll post a public update if and when we are able to offer IR receivers again, or can direct people to a third party supplier.
Edy